unwelcome

Saturday was my girlfriends baby shower and of course i had to go. i know a baby shower is for girls but i was like that donkey not wanting to go any where but i got pulled along. well my mom  and i went. when we where there i was talking to a few people and my mom was sitting by herself in a corner and no one was talking to her. so i stood up and introduced her to everyone in the room and only one person said hi and that was it. well my girlfriends cousin works with my mom(we didn’t know this till the day before her baby shower). she was the only one that talked to my mom all day. i think that is really pitiful that my soon to be family(most likely) cant even make my mom feel like she is going to be the other grandma. my whole family already considers my girlfriend part of our family but hers cant even make us feel welcome. i don’t think it is to hard to ask to just be nice for a few hours a week towards my family not including the ones that do not live by them. it would be nice to approve of me because i am doing what i have to do to provide for my soon to be son and wife. i am trying my hardest and i mean my hardest to make things easy on my girlfriend. yet they don’t see it that way. it is my fault we are having a kid. it is my fault that there dear, sweet, innocent daughter,cousin, niece, or granddaughter is having a baby. i just wish everyone would just except it and go along with life like her and i are doing. just make best of the situation and support us. that’s all we really need is there moral support and reassurance.

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